My brother-in-law loves the CR-V - he's on his fourth. I have a Subaru Outback. After searching for literally a year for a used mid sized SUV that I felt safe driving and would be comfortable for long distances (no model/year was satisfactory), I found a new Outback was just a few thousand more. And while looking at used cars, I never saw a Subaru available (owners keep them a loooong time). I've now owned it 7 years.
How often will you be driving a car and how far? Do you need something with a lot of room to carry things? Do you need something small enough to be towed by a RV? Is gas mileage/insurance costs a factor? If you and your husband decided to scale down to one car in retirement, which car will be sold?